Trick or treat is a binary choice. Binary choices are inevitable in life; but create division. You’re in one camp or the other. A point easily evidenced these days. Either or. Blue or Red. What I am against decides what the world thinks I am for.                   My brother Butch is many things, including intellectually disabled. He just moved into a supervised home. Getting him approved for that level of benefits took years. Years. Despite being the son of a military vetera